He doesn't want to dump his female friend since he's known her for so long.
We were fine about him sleeping with her when I got bored of it, because we both noticed her at the same time, but I had sex with her first because I am better with women that he is. If you want to date your friend’s ex from high school who he no longer cares about or barely remembers, he should be totally fine about it.
However, if she is his “high school sweetheart” and has recently dumped him, then he’s probably not going to continue thinking of you as a true friend.
Sometimes it is fine to date your friend’s ex, but it really depends on the type of relationship they had and the kind of friendship that you have with him. A woman that your friend was having casual sex with: These guys, many guys date and have sex with multiple women at once.
So, if you’re hanging around with friends who do that regularly, you will usually end up sleeping with a few of the same girls at times.
Then one night, you go out to dinner or drinks with your friend and his ex-girlfriend (who is now your girl).
How are you going to feel when they bring up conversations that start with, This is where something that I call “Value Contrast” kicks in.
Say something like, and then explain what your intentions are with her. Sure, it’s comfortable and easy to date a woman you are familiar with because you know what to expect and won’t have to risk getting reject by new women you approach.
Yet, how much of man will that make you feel like in the end?
If the relationship that you are having with her is not as good as the one they had, or if he behaves in a more attractive way than you (i.e.
more confident, funny, masculine), then she will naturally compare you to him and may reconsider her feelings for you.
If you feel as though your friend needs help meeting new women, feel free to suggest that he visit my site and learn from me. Your friend’s wife that he happily left: If he happily left his wife and is glad to be hooking up with new women now, it shouldn’t be too much of a problem. What you really need to do in this situation is be completely honest with yourself about why you want to be with her.