It’s hard to let go if you feel like you are the only one watching the controls.
In the past it was married men watching TV and ignoring their wives and kids. We are active every day..each other and with other people...
Either way; when anyone calls them on it, they whine and obfuscate and bluster. Although committing to any woman is sexual suicide in the crazy C--t culture we are held hostage in today, the important thing to note is that girls are conditioned to be entitled infants as an entire Sex. For there to be "other people" that requires that there are numerous adult women who do not view sex as the sole indicator of fidelity...
It's just talk, and you deserve to be able to have these talks with your partner so you can see if he wants the same things you want. He tells you to stop nagging him but when you try to have a serious conversation about what bothers you, he shuts you down.
The “nag” always gets the bad press, but when you look deeper, the nagging is usually the result of someone not taking full responsibility for himself and his actions.
” But you look over and see that same panic in his eyes—and within a half-hour of your joke, he leaves the premises. You feel that if you don’t remind him of what he needs to do, said he would do, or should do, he will never do it.
If after a reasonable amount of time ( it to happen. You invariably find yourself disappointed and let down as he doesn’t follow through with plans or commitments.You have created a bias based on the people you know, and you cannot extrapolate that narrow set of people to the 8billion other people in the world.While some marriages do work the odds are terrible for men because the racket is a rigged gynocentric one which is sexually suicidal for men.When around you, he doesn’t exude this silly-fun-self and you feel like a buzz kill.Men who never grow up don’t know how to deal with adult women who want to have adult conversation.Blaming your tactic, you vow to yourself to bring it up more casually next time.