Although it was unlikely the two of you would end up dating, sparks flew and the rest is history.
Instead, you might face harsh criticism from friends and family who believe that the two of you are a bad match.
If you find yourself in this situation, it is important to remember that you are the one in the relationship -- not the other people.
Dating outside your social class can be fraught with complications.
People from different social classes may have trouble understanding the way other classes operate.
The idea that social class is purely a product of individual effort, and that lower-class people just “don’t know how to be any better,” seems like a tough backdrop for a marriage between people who grew up with different opportunities.
And in some relationships, the urging of an upper-class partner to a lower-class one to “do better” in terms of education or prestigious employment is a double-edged sword—some couples in the study reported experiencing this as positive encouragement, whereas with others it felt like negative pressure.
If your girlfriend is wealthy, and you come from a family with less money, you might feel as though there is a power imbalance in the relationship.
Often the person with more money ends up making most of the decisions -- because she may be the one paying for things most of the time.
”What seemed to me like the saddest finding was that upper-class people, even when they love and are married to someone from a lower-class background, often display stereotypical class prejudices.