First date failure, whether because she wasn’t what I was looking for or the reverse, was very difficult.
With this approach, I went on one first-date every month, sometimes less.
All of these dates were very stressful because of the time being I devoted just to get to the date.
If they have been on the dating scene for a while and guys have taken them for a ride and continue to do so, eventually they will get fed up and start doing it too. They do it because they can and men always have a back strategy.
Most of the time they end up doing that to someone who really wants to be with them. I told Anique that I will consider dating two guys.
Where the hell do men think we learned those things?
When I first started online dating, I had this notion that dating more than one person simultaneously would somehow be insincere. There were times where I would end up talking to a few girls at once but this was always accidental.
But the way my attention span is set up I don't think I can commit to it for very long.
If I am dating a woman and she tells me upfront that she is dating other men besides me, I would not take her seriously. I might continue to have sex with her, but it probably won’t go much further than that.
I think you have plenty of time to get to know each one and figure out what you like and what you don't like.