Accept that there’s no pattern and then deal with your present. You are not judging yourself nearly as harshly as we will.
And then, one fine day, just before hanging up he says, “Sweetheart, if only I wasn’t married, I would be so in love with you. The beginning of the end The real dark story unveils here.
The little innocent doe in you (in most cases) braves itself up and walks curiously ahead. He’s a married man, and you know you don’t want to fall, but he’s such an emotional wreck, and the most striking part of it all is, he’s totally in love with you. Now, you warm up to him to shower him with happiness, and the next thing you know, you’re snogging him in hallways of movie theaters and bouncing off walls in your apartment, all in the purpose of making him a happier man! You’re dating a married man, and you want him all for yourself.
Of all the relationships you can get into as a girl, dating a married man is one of the worst kinds.
When you enter into a relationship with married men, inevitably you step into a world that can reveal a lot of joy, and yet, tear all the happiness away instantly.
And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.
That one conversation in the office cubicle takes you all the way to the coffee shop, the snack bar, the restaurant, and the movie hall.I understand that there’s attraction on both sides, but that doesn’t justify the behavior. CYBERSPECTRE I love how you pretend you just accidentally wound up in this situation. Advertisement My guess is that you feel entitled to pursue this man because you believe that your relationship history hasn’t been that great. You have the same problem I did: pursuing folks who were unavailable and relying exclusively on physical attraction. Dating someone who is married is hazardous and painful, not always but usually. You obviously have strong feelings about this relationship but try not to let this infatuation blind you to the reality of the situation. I see only one problem relationship here, and that’s the one you’re in right now. You were young and in school, long-distance, or experimenting. when you meet a man who is married, don’t ever begin to size him up as somebody you could date.